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"The Easter Miracle Brew"

Good Morning Sistas,

I pray that you each had an amazing Easter weekend and God was revealed to others through you and He was invited to your table to celebrate the amazing gift He gave each of us on the cross. Many people wonder why He had to go to such great lengths to provide us forgiveness to provide the world an out and a way to get right with God? Couldn't God have chosen a less dehumanizing way to save the world? I have pondered this a lot in my life especially recently.

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The Trophy Wife Part VIII - "He Blessed Me In Spite Of All That I Was Going Through"


"For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime; weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning." Psalm 30:5


Good morning Sistas,

Okay, Sistas believe it or not we are finally winding down with my testimony. Let's get going.................................................................

................... and the Realtor told us that we could no longer get the house. But now I know that God was looking out for me.

The Comeback Kid

Good morning Brothas and Sistas,

In spite of what we go through, have been through, or will go through it's all so that the Son of Man may be glorified. For every seemingly dead situation He's able to mend flesh, revitalize once dead bones and even raise a  corpse if He chooses to do so. 

Lazarus had been dead for 4 days, Jesus came on the scene and resurrection life came into him and as a result he'd been deemed the original "Comeback Kid".

He Is Risen, So Should You

"The resurrection of Jesus changes the face of death for all His people. Death is no longer a prison, but a passage into God’s presence.  Easter says you can put truth in a grave, but it won’t stay there."  Clarence W. Hall

Matthew 28:6 (KJV) "He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay."

Good morning, 

My Brothas and Sistas, Jesus is the King of Life.

Easter, What Is It Really About?

Good morning,

I am sure we each have our own thoughts, feelings, and ideas as to what Easter is all about. I am sure many of us think of the Easter Bunny and all the great candy and such that is only marketed this time of year. I am sure we think of  Easter eggs and the fun there is dying them and being creative. Then there is the traditional Easter egg hunt and we have to remind the big kids to give the little kids a fair chance at finding some of the hidden eggs. Maybe some of you were as naive as I was one year and decided to hide the real eggs in my house before heading to bed certain I would remember where they all were the next day.

3 Crosses & 2 Choices

Good morning Brothas and Sistas, 

Some of us have the penalty of sin resting on us while others, by grace, have shifted it over to Christ. On the hill of Calvary there were three crosses and 3 men, one died in sin, another died to sin, and the third died for sin. These two men had the opportunity, they heard and saw some things, yet one died and went to heaven, while the other died and went to hell.

Brothas and Sistas, the first cross we have shows "Rejection" - He was a man who

"You Shall Be With Me In Paradise" Jesus, Your All Inclusive Getaway

We will continue with our series next week. We are celebrating Holy Week leading up to Resurrection Sunday.

"And Jesus replied, "I assure you, today you will be with me in paradise." NLT

Praise the Lord and GM to my profoundly divine and glorious Brothas & Sistas,
Seems everyone is in search of the hottest and most perfect vacation spot. Some travel as far as to Hawaii, Italy, the Carribeans etc just to get a little piece of pie in the sky, a little R & R (rest and relaxation), or a little peace from all of the drama that life may bring.

Tea Time With Tabby "Easter, There AIN'T NO BUNNY IN IT!"

Good Morning Sistas,

I pray that as you are each having a blessed week this Holy week, my personal favorite week of the year. As we all know this is the week that we honor our Savior Jesus Christ for going to cross and paying for all of sins, unkind words, outright misbehavior and sinful nature. You see had He chosen not to be obedient to His Father in this week leading to His crucifixion none of us would have Tea Cups at all; not shiny ones; not mildly chipped, or cracked to pieces at the end of ourselves waiting for our Savior to come lay His precious hands upon our souls and hearts to make our Tea Cup anew and ready for the brew of the day and for the promise of Heaven.

The Trophy Wife Part VI - "You Mess With The Sanctity of My Family, Girlfriend, You Mess With Me?


"He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock,and  established my goings." Psalm 40:2

Good morning Sistas, 

Sistas, I am having way too much fun with this and I have so much more to go. Let's continue with my story of how the Lord delivered me from the miry clay.  

........................................."What's taking you so long, baby?

The Trophy Wife Part VII - "That Joker Was A Glutton For Punishment - When Will He Learn His Lesson?"

"Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me." Psalm 23:4

Good morning Sistas,
I hope you had a wonderful week. I am anxious to get back to my testimony. So let's go. Oh yeah, I think I ended with.....................
.........stay away from my husband. And she inturn said, " It takes two people to tango.

"Private Eye Trophy Wife Part V- I Ain't Scared -That Playa Gets Busted."

"Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices." II Corinthians 2:11 

Good morning Sistas,
Shall we continue with my testimony. Here we go................................
................................................make it by myself. In this relationship I found myself always angry. Sistas, I had no self control. I was not loving and affectionate at all. I became very distant.

How Are You Treating Your Fellow Misfit

"My brethren, have not the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory, with respect of persons. For if there come unto your assembly a man with a gold ring, in goodly apparel, and there come in also a poor man in vile raiment; And ye have respect to him that weareth the gay clothing, and say unto him, Sit thou here in a good place; and say to the poor, Stand thou there, or sit here under my footstool: Are ye not then partial in yourselves, and are become judges of evil thoughts?

How Is Your Worship?

"I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them: intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them. Pray this way for kings and all who are in authority so that we can live peaceful and quiet lives marked by godliness and dignity. This is good and pleases God our Savior." (1 Tim. 2:1-2) 

"Prayer does not change the purpose of God.  But prayer does change the action of God." Chuck Smith 

Good morning Friends of God,

You Still Qualify

"The Lord said, Simon, Simon, behold, Satan hath desired to have you, that he may sift you as wheat: But I have prayed for thee, that thy faith fail not: and when thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren." Luke 22:31, 32 

Saints, we still qualify no matter how far we have fallen from God's grace. Regardless of what we've done we are never out of His reach. He still loves and He will still use us. Peter denied Christ. Judas betrayed him. Moses presented the ten commandments, one of which stated, "Thou shalt not kill.

Why Can't I Forgive? Part II

"Forgive, and ye shall be forgiven" Matthew 6:37 c

Good morning Brothas and Sistas, 

Let me continue with my testimony................................................

My heart was beating fast and I jumped out of bed to turn on the light and the lights would not come on. Then I remembered the last thing Shell said before going to bed and what God was telling me to do. I walked into the living room to turn the lights on and to my surprise the lights would not come on, so I dropped to my knees and asked God to forgive me for not forgiving Shell and I told him I was sorry.

Is Maintaining Intimacy A Priority In Your Marriage? Old Skool

"Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." Genesis 2:24

Good morning Brothas and Sistas,

Question: Is maintaining intimacy a priority in your marriage?

Brothas and Sistas, when it comes to making intimacy a priority in your marriage the question we pose to you both is......."Do you see your spouse as a priority?" It's not just enough to make intimacy a priority in your relationship but you must make him/her a priority in your relationship.

Rightness vs. Righteousness

Good morning Sista,

I pray that you have come with Tea Cups to be filled no matter how tattered or lovely they are. They are both gifts from God, the Father and one day in Heaven we will all have perfect gold laid cups that are bottomless; meaning they are always full of His love grace and joy of Heaven; which is true today but our flesh and Satan so often trick us in to seeing anything but this truth.

For any of my regular readers you know that my tea cup is looking pretty tattered these days.

You Never Know Whose Watching You.....Let Your Light Shine.

"My voice shalt thou hear in the morning, O lord in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and I will look."

Good morning Sistas, 

I was asked a question, while obviously being observed by a coworker one morning. The question I was asked was "What do you do out in your car so early every morning?" I replied, "I pray. That is my time to pray and meditate before I go into building. I like to reflect and direct my thoughts towards God." 

Words To Live By - Loving Others = Loving God

"By this shall all men know you are my disciples, if ye have love to another." (John 13:35). 

Good Morning Friends of God. 

Luke 10:25 says, "And, behold, a certain lawyer stood up, and tempted Him, saying Master, what shall I do to inherit eternal life? He said unto him, what is written in the  law? How readest thou? And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbor as thyself.

"Soldiers Creed - No Man Left Behind"

"Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ." Galatians 6:2 

Good morning Brothas and Sistas,

Lately, I have been hearing more stories about wounded and fallen soldiers. And no I am not talking about war in Afghanistan or Irag but I am talking about the increasing war faithful Christians engage themselves in on a daily basis with no end in sight only to fall by the wayside. Many of our Christian soldiers have been wounded & even silenced by life's blows.

Why Can't I Forgive? Part I

"Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?" Matthew 18:21

Good morning Brothas and Sistas,

My Brothas and Sistas, forgiveness is a choice. We choose either to hold on to or let go of an offense. It is hard to forgive at times. Yes, it can be but when we think about the many times we have messed up, did wrong to others, how we should have received the punishment for the offense, and yet God who is rich in mercy and grace saw fit to forgive us for what we have done.

What Makes Us Best Friends & Lovers? - Do You Still Have Open Communication?

"If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand." Mark 3:25

Good morning Brothas and Sistas, 

Open communication is so essential in marriage. Question: Are you sharing anything that troubles you with your mate regardless of how minute it may seem to be? 

Open communication is the gateway to transparency within marriage.

"Where Do We Run When Life Goes Asunder" Part II

Good morning Sistas, 

Let's pick up where we left off.

                                                                                                        Sistas, there is one part of this battle I am confident in and know without a shadow of a doubt that God doesn't intend for me or you to ever loose.

"The Trophy Wife - Part IV - What's Done In The Dark Always Come To Light - Fatal Attraction II"


"weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning." Psalm 30:5b

Good morning Sistas,

Let's continue.......................................................................................
        ...that sista was relentless.  Well it just so happened he went out one night.  Can you believe that playa lied and told me that he was too drunk to drive home that night so he was going to stay with a friend?

"You Are Not A Chump"

"With his mouth the godless man would destroy his neighbor, but by knowledge the righteous are delivered." Proverbs 11:9 

Good morning my Brothas and Sistas, 

Many times we are hit with accusations from out of nowhere and nothing makes us madder than wanting to give our accusers a piece of our minds and we have to muzzle our mouths because we realize not only is our Christian walk at stake but there are souls weighing in the balance and how we respond may warrant whether or not they give their lives to Christ.

Do We Find Joy In Serving? 

"Is there any encouragement from belonging to Christ? Any comfort from His love? Any fellowship together in the Spirit? Are your hearts tender and compassionate? Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose." Philippians 2:1-2

Good Morning Friends of God,

Friends do we find joy in serving? Is our attitude like Christ? Philippians 2:1-2 says, "Is there any encouragement from belonging to Christ?

"Facing Your Giants"


"Faith activates God - Fear activates the Enemy." Joel Olsteen
 "For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline." II Timothy 1:7
Good morning Brothas and Sistas,
I want to share these words of encouragement. You see over the past few months I have had some sistas that I know come up against some major giants in their lives.

Do We Believe He Is Who He Says He Is?

Good morning Brothas and Sistas,

We often sing and say the different names of God in our songs and in our talk such as Jehovah Rohi - The God who sees. Psalm 23:1 The Lord is my shepherd, but do we trust that He is watching over us as His Sheep.

Jehovah Rapha - The Lord, our healer. Ex. 15:26 Yet, we know that God can remove all disease. 

Jehovah Jireh - The God who will provide. Gen. 22:13 But do we trust Him when we are between a rock and a hard place.

God Is Not Intimidated By Our Inadequacies

"If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him." James 1:5
Good morning Brothas and Sistas,
Woo, this week has been a very challenging week, due to the fact it was the first week back to school, which comes with added responsibilities. I also decided to register for graduate school and take two classes.

What Makes Us Best Friends and Lovers? Part II Are You Honest With One Another?

"Do not lie to one another, since you laid aside the old self with its evil practices," Colossians 3:9

Good morning to our phenomenal couples,

How Important Is Honesty In Marriage? Okay, let's make is real personal..... How important is honesty inYOUR marriage? With this question in mind, Are we truly capable of accepting honesty when it is brought to us?

"Where Do We Run When Life Goes Asunder" Part I

Good Morning Sistas, 

I pray that you are ready to consider a few matters of the heart versus the flesh this morning. I promise that it will be enlightening yet I sense that God will use it for any of us to remind us that we have no power, strength, wisdom or love outside the Father.

Sistas, I pray that each of you will get exactly what it is that God desires for you out of this pot of Tea called: "Where Do I Run When Life Goes Asunder?

"The Trophy Wife" - Part III: Momma Always Knows No Matter How Hard You Try To Hide It"


"Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve my life. You stretch out your hand against the anger of my foes; with your right hand you save me." Psalm 138:7 

Good morning Sistas,
Okay, where did we leave off? Oh yeah, that's right he was all jacked up and in the hospital. I mean he was so messed up he was scared straight. His plastic intestines that were put in from a childhood abnormality started bothering him after all those years out of no where.

Weapons of Warfare and Worship - What Have You Opened Your Mind Up To?

"For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." II Tim.1:7

"We cannot change our hearts, but we can change our minds; and when we change our minds, God will change our hearts." Vance Havner

Good morning Sistas,

Our former pastor, Pastor Johnson used to say, "You need to think about what your thinking about." He was referring to those things in our thought life that we allow to take control of our minds.

"Don't Fret, God Is In Control"

"Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity. For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither as the green herb. For evildoers shall be cut off: but those that wait upon the Lord, they shall inherit the earth." Psalm 37:1 -2, 9

Good Morning Friends of God,

I just wanted to share something with you that my son talked about in his devotional, called "Looking Beyond". The scripture was taken from Psalm 37 and the title was, "Don't Fret".

True Friendship vs. False Friendship

   “Can two walk together except they agree?“ Amos 3:3 

Good morning Kingdom children,

True friends are like diamonds precious but rare. False friends are like fall leaves found everywhere. Have you taken the time to evaluate your friendships lately? When people show you who they are; believe them. When people can walk away from you; let them walk. Your destiny is not tied to anyone that left you and you can't change what you don't acknowledge. 

"What Kingdom Sistas Need to Know About Their Kingdom Men- Sistas, Don't Be Decieved Part II


" wise as a serpent and harmless as a dove." Matthew 10:16 b

Good morning Sistas,  
I want us to continue where we left off last week with getting to know that brotha's ways a little bit more before you say, "I do". They are many things that you need to know before walking down the isle and it is not a good idea to sugarcoat things before you do.

What Makes Us Best Friends and Lovers? Intro

"And I will betroth thee unto me for ever; yea, I will betroth thee unto me in righteousness, and in judgment, and in lovingkindness, and in mercies." Hosea 2:19

"Marriage is an exclusive union between one man and one woman, publicly acknowledged, permanently sealed, and physically consummated.” ~ Selwyn Hughes

Good morning Brothas and Sistas, 

Most couples find it difficult to maintain a healthy, viable relationship as the years go by.

Tea Anyone? Sistas, I Can Relate....... Can You Relate?

Teatime : In Response To Is He You Spiritual Lover and Main Boo?
"Love the Lord thy God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind." Luke 10:27
Sistas, I love the question, "Do I love Him with all my heart, with all my might, and with all of me?" To be honest I wish I could say, "Yes.

The Trophy Wife - "Holy Matrimony - Sike!!!! Stop Playin'!!!! The Joke Was Definitely On Me" Part II

"Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. " Hebrews 11:1

........on me financially.  Sistas, like any other loving wife I had to take care of him.  I also had to do the housework and take care of our son.  I was miserable and hurt, but the one thing that kept me going was prayer and asking God for strength.  After all that I had went through I still wanted my family to stay together.

        When he got hurt things changed.

What's Love With Got To Do With It? Part II

"And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity." I Corinthians 13:13

Good morning Saints, 

I submit to you that love has everything to do with it. "When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these? “Yes, Lord,” he said, “you know that I love you.” Jesus said, “Feed my lambs.” Again Jesus said, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” He answered, “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.

God's Glory In The Desert Places

"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end." Jeremiah 29:11

Good Morning Friends of God,

I have a word of encouragement for anyone who's going through right now. Friends, God's glory is all around us, even in the desert places. Moses spent forty years as a prince in Pharaoh's court in Exodus 2:1-10 

Friends, I'm sure you can imagine how different shepherding sheep in the wilderness was for Moses.

Are You Confronting Those You Love

"Nathan said to David, Thou art the man. Thus saith the Lord God of Israel, I anointed thee king over Israel, & I delivered thee out of the hand of Saul...Wherefore hast thou despised the commandment of the Lord, to do evil in his sight?" II Sam.12:7, 9a 

Good morning Sistas, 

Confrontation can be a real trip at times. Sometimes it can be one of the hardest things in life to do and to tell you the truth most of us tend to avoid it. Question. How many excuses have you made for things you won't confront?

When Is Wrong, Wrong?

"I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God." Romans 12: 1, 2

Good morning Brothas and Sistas, 

I remember some years back there was a song out that said, "If loving you is wrong then I don't want to be right.

Are You and Your Boo Practicing Teamwork?


"There was a man all alone; he had neither son nor brother. There was no end to his toil, let his eyes were not content with his wealth. “For whom am I toiling,” he asked, “and why am I depriving myself of enjoyment?” This too is meaningless— a miserable business! Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.

Are You Sanctified?

Saints, Tabby will be back next week. In the meantime we ask that you keep her in prayer.

"They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth. As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world. For them I sanctify myself, that they too may be truly sanctified. John 17:16-19

"May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

"The Trophy Wife - Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda (s) - I Shoulda Listened To Momma" Part I


"He gives power to the weak, And to those who have no might He increases strength." Isaiah 40:29
Good morning Sistas,

       Today is our premiere of "The Trophy Wife".  This testimony is about a single mom that was once married to none other than West B-mores elite playas'.  She will give her testimony of her amazing story and phenomenal deliverance.

"Love The One You're With - Brothas and Sistas What Do Your Marital Vows Mean To You?" Part I

"If a man vows a vow to the Lord, or swears an oath to bind himself by a pledge, he shall not break his word. He shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth."  Numbers 30:2     
“Maybe that's what it all comes down to. Love, not as a surge of passion, but as a choice to commit to something, someone, no matter what obstacles or temptations stand in the way.

Weapons of Warfare and Worship - Don't Give Into It

"Fight the good fight of faith, lay hold on eternal life, whereunto thou art also called & hast professed a good profession before many witnesses." I Timothy 6:12 

Good morning Sistas, 

This past weekend I had the pleasure of giving one of our spiritual mothers a lift home. I love her because she tends to be a bit feisty and I have made it my goal in life to be just like her "when I grow up." She is one of a kind because she has learned the art of "walking by faith and not by sight" and nor by what anyone else tells her.

"Sistas, Dance Like You've Never Danced Before"

“I take joy in doing your will." Psalm 40:8

Good morning,

Sistas, it's time to reclaim the joy that God has bestowed upon you. The circumstances of life may try to drown you in misery and pain but the God who loves you has already conquered sin. We should never allow life to steal our God given joy. We must remember that "The joy of the Lord is our strength." Nehemiah 8:10 Sistas, once the enemy steals our joy he exhausts our strength.

We must remember that God is also victorious over anything that is trying to rob you emotionally and spiritually.
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